A common misconception is that it’s just the cancer sufferer who might need
support. Cancer affects the people close to them too.
I meet many spouses, partners, parents, siblings, children, and friends of those who have cancer.
You are the ones who provide support, who go along to hospital appointments with the patient, who keep them company, collect their prescriptions, and do many other things that show you care about them.
If someone you love has cancer, you want to support them, help them and be strong for them.
Outwardly, you smile and stay positive, ready with tissues and a hug. Inwardly, you may also be struggling.
Struggling to deal with your own emotions, trying not to show any negative emotions in front of your loved one, scared of what might happen, unsure of the best way to help, and what else you can do to make things easier for them.
It’s ok to admit these feelings. I am here as a place for you to offload those worries and fears, to help you manage your feelings and remain strong for those that need you.